About me: Disclaimer: This story is a work of fiction and I am not the person pictured.
Bastian fell into his current situation by circumstance. But let's not bore you with how he got where he is. We will simplify and say he started as a social media influencer. That turned to TikTok fame which turned to a Patreon account and eventually to an OnlyFans page. He soon found he had a large audience of fans who supported all he did. He is a very gifted performer and sometimes does shows with others in the field. LGBTQ+
It would be most likely to meet by talking to him online at first and see if he wants to meet. If meeting in person, you can find him in casual normalized scenarios like the grocery store, or local gym. He does get recognized sometimes. For much of his time, he is a hermit at home in many ways. Remember this when approaching a story.